Everyone wants to be a leader but there are only a few its called leadership. In the early stage of a children's life you will determine who is the leader and who is the followers, yes your right what your thinking, you can determine who is leader and who is not. For example, way back in High School I use to chased celebrity and if not enough I saddle my neighbors maid either to watch movie or watching live afternoon TV program. Until one day we have a school project, its about collecting the old newspapers, one day my classmates and I went to this exclusives subdivision, one of the celebrity is living there, and we ask the driver where is he. And the driver answer, "If you want to see him, just buy a ticket." Since then I realize that they are only nice in front of the camera. And I'm still not learning my lesson. I went to an afternoon live TV program. This time I almost lost my one shoe.
Since then I realize that isn't just right. So I stop chasing people, if its not meant to be then be it.
But what is the lesson there, stop chasing people or following people who gives you a heartache, at least follows people to uplift your spirit and mind as well make you inspired. Do your thing or mind your own business. Because a lot of people around you is so busy to work hard but you on the other hand use to complaint for everything, instead of following people or stalking your neighbor instead be busy on your own business, do something good be a leader of a good individual, a law abiding citizens and last but not least be an inspiration to everyone.
For you to become a good leader you must have these traits or characteristics. These are include the following.
1. Emotional Stability. Its been said that leadership, is making important but unpopular decisions.
2. Confidence
3. Transparency
4. Integrity
5. Inspiration
6. Passions
7. Innovation
8. Patience
A good leader must be able to tolerate frustration and stress.
Do you have these qualities or in traits? Then you have a potential to a good leader.
One of the most difficult task is to budget or managing your finances, see for example you have the salary of 50k and your house mortgage is 25k so how do you budget with that with slashing half of your salary plus your electricity bill, water bill and of course the internet fee. The best thing you could do is make sure you have a grocery for a month avoid those that unnecessary things like dress, shoes, buy the nice one of that will last for a lifetime. Don't buy the cheap one because its only last for a month or in a few use. So its better to buy the classic one not a trendy, but at least you can buy once. And the other one is eating in a high end have you tried to get your fry pan or sauce pan to joggle the vegetable. Cooking is fun its not what you think. And also its delicious and healthy food that you serve in your family. And also not to buy that thing not important. And make sure you have a cash, I didn't mean credit card, you know its very convenient if you have a ...
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